Finding light: Changes in graduation, friendships and more

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Meet the seniors: Kaylee Kirk (top), Stephanie Graden (middle), and Rachel Hughes (bottom). Photo Credit: Rachel Barks

As the COVID-19 pandemic swept the world, it has left a change for the 2019-2020 graduating class of seniors that they will never forget, leaving many scrambling to find any positivity in the situation.

Heartbreak and Self-Care

During this time of uncertainty and loss, self-care has emerged as something very important for the senior classes.

Two seniors and roommates, Stephanie Graden and Kaylee Kirk expressed that they felt like so much was taken from them. Along with missing out on the rest of their senior year, Graden and Kirk watched as their Disney College Program acceptance and excitement was cancelled as well.

Both Graden and Kirk got accepted into the Disney College Program at the same time.
Photo Credit: Stephanie Graden

 “I haven’t cried as hard as I cried since I lost my mom, I knew then I was heartbroken,” Graden said. “Something recently that has been helping is making sure I have time with God every single day, right at the beginning of my day.”

Kirk explains how important self-care is for herself and other students during this pandemic.

According to Illinois State University’s Student Counseling Services the best ways to combat anxiety and depression during this time is to not become too isolated, develop a routine, strengthen self-care, practice calming rituals and much more.

“Being to spend a bunch of time at home is good, I really enjoy that I get to help my family out around the house, and being an extra pair of hands and help for them,” Kirk said, delving into the positivity and good things she has taken from the situation.

“Treat every day like you won’t see people again, and live in the moment,” 

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Senior, Rachel Hughes, explains how she works to stay positive during the COVID-19 pandemic.

The tassle was worth the hassle

The pandemic has left many unanswered questions: some of these big questions of uncertainty directly affected the graduating class of the 2019-2020 school year and their futures.

Many senior students watched as their last year at their universities changed and disappeared right in front of their eyes. Along with beloved sports, and internships being cancelled and postponed, the Commencement Ceremony also faced a large change.

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Graduation Week is a special week that falls in the beginning of May, featuring the Baccalaureate Service and Commencement for graduating students. Photo Credit: olivet.edu

At Olivet Nazarene University, as some states began issuing stay-at-home orders, it became clear that travel restrictions would likely prevent the university from hosting an on-ground commencement ceremony.

“The safety of our students and families would have to be a priority. We made the decision based on the information we had at the time,” said Vice President for Student Development, Woody Webb.

It was announced on April 3, that the commencement ceremony would be held virtually. The graduating class expressed disappointment in this decision and requested a vote to add the opportunity to have an on-ground ceremony where they could post-pone the baccalaureate service until they could walk across the stage in person.

 “Following several conversations, we surveyed the graduating seniors. The results of that survey indicated that two-thirds preferred an on-ground ceremony in August,” Webb said.

Olivet is now offering a physical commencement ceremony to be held in Centennial Chapel on Aug. 15. A special 2020 reunion will be held during homecoming and family weekend during the week of Nov. 4 through 8.

According to the Journal of Literature and Art Studies by Emmanuel Mutangi, “Graduation is their commissioning to face the world of work with confidence so as to make a contribution to society, earn an income, support their families, and plan for the future.”

Friends are the family you pick

An integral part of senior’s lives are the friendships they have cultivated over their four years; they’re with each other through the laughs, tears and every step of their college careers.

“My roommates and I have a group chat on Snapchat, ‘These Shining Lives’ cast has a Zoom call every week and so does Associated Student Council (ASC),” Hughes said, explaining how she stays connected with her circle of friends and peers.

This was another twist that the class of 2020 had to learn to navigate when the pandemic changed their lives. Many students manage to stay connected using the internet and social media.

Graden explains how staying connected during this time is a blessing for her and helps her through the ups and downs.

Olivet’s community works to stay together through the COVID-19 pandemic despite the twists and turns, making sure no one feels alone during this time.

  • alt="ASC Executive's take group Christmas photo"
  • alt="Kirk takes a group photo with her friends during Ollies Follies"
  • alt="Hughes dances in a yellow dress on stage"
  • alt="Graden and Kirk take a final group photo with their friend at Olivet"
  • alt="Hughes and friends pose in Washington D.C.
  • alt="Graden, Kirk and Zehr pose with a First Day of School sign"
  • alt="Hughes and friends pose with a first day of school sign, laughing"
  • alt="Kirk poses with her friend both wearing Mickey Mouse ears"
  • alt="Graden poses in Mickey Mouse ears in front of a big mirror"

Extras

Visit the social media links for The GlimmerGlass newspaper to see Hughes work as Executive Editor, and The Aurora Yearbook to see Graden’s work as Executive Editor and Kirk’s work as a Designer.

The GlimmerGlass

Aurora Yearbook

Author

  • Rachel Barks

    I am currently a Multimedia Communications major with a concentration in Journalism and Professional Writing minor. An avid lover of storytelling, I have a passion for writing, reporting on the truth as well as sharing other's stories. Later in life, I hope to work as a digital journalist or write for a company or business.

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